Experience?

Why is experience important in virtually every daily endeavor except sex.  Moslems supposedly are rewarded for their “good deeds” by eternal life in Paradise along with 72 virgins.  Having to “deflower” 72 virgins sounds more like Hell than Paradise.  One would thing spending Paradise with a highly trained, skilled “Geisha” would be far more interesting (from a sexual standpoint, at least) than 72 incompetent Virgins.  (However, if one looks at who Americans continue to send to federal and state legislatures to represent their best interests it does appear that incompetence just might be a desired quality.) If faced with a medical problem, most people would choose the practitioner with the most experience, not the least.  The same is usually true when a job hunt is involved in that more experience is more of an asset than less experience.  There is more truth than not in the cliché that one learns from experience.  Who would want to play golf with a first time golfer, ski with a first time skier, have a first time dentist drill one’s teeth.  So, the question needed answered today is why would one want a sexual experience with a virgin or someone with limited experience.  Perhaps this is all explained by the reality that every society, western or otherwise have hang-ups when it comes to sex for pleasure.   Most societies look at sex as a means to procreate and do not value the purpose of sex to recreate.  Perhaps that is the problem we face in the world.  If more time, energy, and resources were spent making pleasure rather than making war the world would probably be a better place.  Imagine how spending more resources developing items of mass enjoyment rather than weapons of mass destruction might change things.  In most things, experience counts and perhaps those things need to be expanded to include sex.